Separation Anxiety, My dog has Separation Anxiety

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Separation Anxiety

Did you know that separation anxiety is the 2^nd most common reason why dogs are euthanized or given up by their owners?

Separation anxiety can occur in any breed and at any age.

Dogs can react to a lack of exercise and or the stress of being separated from their "pack member(s)" by becoming destructive, barking continuously, or eliminating in the house. You may see personality changes in your pet as well. He may become aggressive, or shy. He may become depressed and can even make himself sick. They may begin to chew on parts of their own body. Our neighbor's German Shepherd chewed on his tail so much that it had to be amputated. He had recently lost his favorite "pack member" and was obviously depressed most of the time. My own rescued schnauzer, perfect as she is, will occasionally dump out our garbage and spread it all through the house. This too, although it does not happen often, is separation anxiety because it only happens when we leave the house.

In order to stop our dogs from having separation anxiety, we first need to understand what is causing it. There are two reasons this can be occurring...

1. The number one cause of separation anxiety is a humans lack of leadership. We humans more often than not, tend to treat our fellow canine family members like humans. In a pack, the leader is allowed to leave, however, the followers never leave the leader. If your dog is instinctually seeing you as their follower and you leave him, it causes so much mental anguish that a dog often takes it out on your house or himself. The dog sees itself as the one who is responsible for the pack and when the pack has left the house they get in a panic because they are afraid that something might happen to their pack members. When a dog accepts you as pack leader separation anxiety will not exist. If you do not understand the instincts of the dog and his pack members, the articles, The Human Dog, Top Dog and Establishing and Keeping Alpha Position will give you a better idea of how your dog instinctively thinks. However, the issue of separation anxiety is not always one of a leadership issue.

2. Separation anxiety can also be due to a lack of exercise. A build up of energy the dog is storing a way within them. When you leave, it intensifies their stress and they act out because they do not know what else to do with this built up energy. Walk your dog in the morning before he eats and again at night. For the walk to be successful, your dog needs to be focused on his owner, his pack leader. Therefore, the dog should not be pulling in front of you. The dog should be walking beside or behind you, following YOU as opposed to you following HIM. If you allow the dog to pull in front, the walk will not accomplish it's intended goal. When a dog walks with his mind focused on his owner, you not only release physical energy, you release mental energy. Working his brain and fulfilling his canine instinct. I suggest you save some money and invest in some Cesar Millan DVD's and watch them. The money you invest in these DVD's will be less than your dogs future destruction.

Some things that can help

1. When one leaves the house one must not make a big thing out of it and when you come back, do some other things first like taking off your coat and putting the grocery's away before you greet the dog. This way you won't make a big deal for the dog, that you are leaving the house.

2. Sometimes getting a second dog will help your dog cope with his human pack leaving him. You may still want to crate your dogs while you are gone, however having the crates close to one another can ease your dogs tension, as he will not be alone. Just be sure you are the pack leader to your first dog, before you venture into getting a second dog.

3. If you have more than one dog, and you do not know which dog is being destructive, you need to play private investigator. Peeking through a window or setting up a camcorder or two will help you find out who the perpetrator/s are.

4. You may need a new attitude - from now on you are not going back in the house when little FiFi cries. You are going to ignore the bad behavior and reward the good. When you go back and hold her or pet her and console her, you are rewarding the behavior that you don't want and it is confusing to your dog because she thinks, "Well, I must be doing the right thing if she comes back and praises me."

5. If your dog is destructive, buy a crate and USE IT. Be strong! Ignore those Goo Goo eyes. In the long run you and your pet will be happier. When you leave, tell her, "crate." Put her in there. Pat her on the head; leave her with some chewy things, and leave. Don't look back. Don't say it will be ok, or even, "Mommy won't be gone long."

6. Do practice departures on the weekend. Leave for 2 minutes; come back in; praise her, and give her a treat. Increase the time to 5 minutes, 8 minutes and so on. Do not reward bad behavior. For barking, some like to use bark collars. Just be sure when the behavior is corrected you remove the collar and put on her old collar.

7. Leave a TV on for your pet. If you only have one pet and you are gone for long periods of time, your pet is probably lonely. You need to consider getting her a pet.

8. Is your dog getting enough exercise? Are you spending enough time with her? Have there been major changes lately? These and other questions should be asked and addressed. Sometimes it is just a small thing that makes the difference with controlling this problem.

9. Contact the breeder you purchased her from. We like to know if any of our dogs have problems whether they are 10 weeks or 10 years old. If I had 2 people tell me their pet had separation anxiety, and these puppies came from the same litter, I may have to reassess our breeding program. I am a firm believer that some of these disorders are genetic, although nurture vs. Nature comes into play as well. We can improve our chances of avoiding a lot of these problems through careful breeding practices.

10. If your dog is not responding to your desensitization training, you should consider medicinal options along with behavior modification. There are a few drugs on the market that may help your pet. Talk to your vet. There are also herbal remedies that have been successful in the past. You owe it to your friend to get him the emotional balance that he needs to cope with the stress in his life. We do not want him to be another statistic.

Separation anxiety can be curable if you fulfill your dogs canine instincts.

To help you learn to do this, w e strongly suggest Cesar Millan DVD's and or Cesar Millan Books to every dog owner, from Chihuahua to Pit Bull. An excellent guide to communicating with, understanding, and controlling your dog.

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Written by Dawn Littlefield
Littlefield Kennels Edited by Dog Breed Info Center®

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